Kip’s Comments - November 8, 2024

Seven Words - “Embrace the Suck…”

Over the past weeks a health situation I have been working through since January 15 has begun having a negative impact on my attitude. Described simply, I am beginning to accept that a close to full recovery is not likely. If a complete return to “normal” does not happen, the activities I so enjoy - paddling, backpacking, even throwing a ball, are not likely in my future - at least not like I was used to. This has been difficult to accept and has been discouraging. So much so that my attitude has not always been as positive as it should be.

Today, before I went for a woodland hike, I noticed a gentleman in a camo-painted wheelchair with tracks. The guy was fishing from the special chair along the bank of a small lake. He seemed to be doing well - fishing and attitude. Meanwhile I was heading off on my hike - uncomfortable and disappointed.

My hike did not take me to any special wildlife or outdoor scenes. I did find a lone locust tree covered in thorns that I photographed (seen here). How fitting - to find a thorny tree for a thorny attitude.

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As I was returning to my truck I felt it important to meet the fellow in the chair before I left the area. First I politely/respectfully asked if I could talk to him - and he agreed. Then I asked his story.

He lost the use of his legs while serving our country. His shoulder also causes him issues. As a result he moves in the tracked-wheel chair and participates in as many outdoor activities as he can. We discussed in detail his fly-fishing, the type of line he was using, and how his chair navigated obstacles - among other things.

As I was preparing to leave I thanked the fellow for putting my attitude in perspective. I explained my discomfort, my limitations, my overall disappointment and how my situation paled compared to his. He looked at me and gave me seven words of advise he learned as an infantryman. “Embrace the Suck… Acknowledge, Adapt, and Overcome” were the wisdom he shared. With that I thanked him and bid farewell.

The angler in the tracked-chair was right. It was time for me to accept and adapt. Yes, I am disappointed, but I have it so much better than many others. I will get beyond this and an improved attitude will help. Limitations may exist, but so will opportunities.

Thank you for your service Sir. Thank you for your inspiration!

Ironically, as I approached my truck I noticed this painted rock delivering an appropriate message… “Be Happy”

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